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Relating & Communicating

  • Loving confusion — Is it okay to love same sex friends... and say so?
  • In love, but not in lust
  • Ménage à trois?
  • Here cums the bride... but where's the groom? (Fiancée masturbates in ''secret'')
  • Extramarital sex always wrong?
  • Should we have an open relationship?
  • Boyfriend has a child
  • Can't make a commitment
  • Healthy versus unhealthy relationships
  • Husband into porn and masturbation, but not me
  • Abuse or exploration?
  • My friend sleeps around — I'm worried
  • Referring to one's self in the third person
  • My girlfriend can't get over that I experimented with men
  • Should I tell partner I'm a virgin?
  • Ideas for a creative anniversary celebration?
  • Girlfriend wants more?
  • History lesson: How do I ask about my partner's past?
  • Personal grooming — Can I tell my date to spiff up?
  • Woman wants to initiate date
  • Fear of rejection?
  • Compatibility versus fun
  • Finding a partner
  • Difficulty sleeping double in a twin bed
  • Dinner does not equal sex

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